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Secrets and Lives	\|

Posted by : DavidM on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 06:51 PM GMT

RACHEL GUBBY AND CLAIRE HALLIDAY

We've heard about the secret sexual lives of celebrities like Tiger Woods and Bill Clinton, but what about the man sitting next to you at work or the mate you play golf with every month?

WITH the sun on his face, he's the upstanding citizen, the devout churchgoer who runs a local business, perhaps the married father of three planting trees at a kindergarten working bee. But in the stolen hours of the night, he's making love to his secret boyfriend or gang-banging a stranger at a party that he hopes his wife will never find out about.

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The Swinging Lifestyle. An Interview with Terry Gould	\|

Posted by : DavidM on Tuesday, February 23, 2010 - 06:45 PM GMT

Terry Gould is the best selling author of The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers, a book that has been profiled on ABC’s 20/20 and CBS’s 48 Hours, and is widely considered to be the only serious investigation of the modern swinging subculture by a mainstream journalist.

Kasidie: I’ve really been looking forward to speaking with you. Your book has had a huge impact on me. When I started readingThe Lifestyle, A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers, I couldn’t put it down. In many ways it has greatly affected the way I view the lifestyle, and it has actually been a driving force behind much of the ideology behind Kasidie Magazine.

Terry Gould: Thank you, I’m honored.

Note: A fascinating look at swinging.

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The rise of mid-life lesbians	\|

Posted by : dssunshine52 on Thursday, January 07, 2010 - 03:41 PM GMT

Late-flowering lesbians have never been so prevalent. What makes a woman jump the fence?

Stephanie T.

For many people, the thrill of the recent revelation that the writer Jeanette Winterson is dating Susie Orbach is that Orbach is not some bolshie 20-year-old with tats and piercings who is declaring she’s a dyke and running off to do queer performance art in Dalston.
This is about the nice lady in your street who puts out her recycling bins, gives dinner parties, reads the good newspapers and, one day, leaves her male partner of many years and runs off with someone the bad papers would describe as a “notorious lesbian”.

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Rediscovering sex in my fifties	\|

Posted by : dssunshine52 on Thursday, January 07, 2010 - 03:40 PM GMT

Why should your sex life dry up when you reach middle age? Susan S. says hers just keeps on getting better

I came of age sexually at the start of the 1970s. These were the sexual salad days of a generation, in that rose-coloured window between the appearance of the pill and the onslaught of HIV.
I was 16 when I started college. Along with an Indian bedspread, a plug-in teapot and a copy of On the Road, the trappings of my new life included the pill, dispensed like candy at the local clinic. Abortions, too, were easily available. At the campus clinic, doctors and nurses treated nuisances such as crabs and genital warts without a trace of moral judgment.

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Swinger Travel - An escapade for avid swingers	\|

Posted by : johnlewis on Thursday, January 07, 2010 - 03:39 PM GMT

The swinger lifestyle has caught the fancy of several married and unmarried couples. However, due to societal disapproval of this kind of lifestyle, there is a growing need to express sexual liberty with a swinger travel to the exotic beach cruises and spa resorts.

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7 Sexual Partners That Don’t (Have To) Count.	\|

Posted by : HelenofTroy on Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 03:36 PM GMT

If I were on the witness stand, under oath, and asked, “How many people have you had sexual intercourse with?” my response would be one or two digits higher than what I commonly tell people. It’s not that in either case I’m lying per se; it’s just that a few of my partners just don’t register on the same scale as the rest and I don’t want to count them. And I’m not alone. In everyday life, there may be a couple partners that the average person would leave out. There is just some sex that doesn’t really, well, count.

IT DOESN’T COUNT IF…

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10 Things Men Forget To Do During Sex	\|

Posted by : HelenofTroy on Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 03:35 PM GMT

No one on earth is quite as pleased as a man who has just pleased a woman between the sheets. We love the care and attention you’ve paid to us for our own benefit, but we also love watching you bask in self-satisfaction. But as satisfied as you might be with yourself, sometimes we’re not quite as satisfied as you’d hoped: something relatively minor, but highly distracting, was a bit “off.”

Don’t be offended, darlings, but a few nips and tucks in your bedroom style might speed things along (in a good way)—leaving us more time for another go at it!

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Affair to remember: My husband approves of my affair	\|

Posted by : HelenofTroy on Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 03:33 PM GMT

Here, a married woman relates how she fell for another man - with her husband's permission

I've been married for more than 20 years. My husband is my best friend. There is a lot of deep-rooted love but sadly no more excitement, no more desire - and I needed more. With my husband's blessing, I joined a dating website for married people. After many encounters I met 4tunesfool in February last year. We clicked as soon as we saw each other. We kissed and decided to meet again.

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4 Sex Myths That Most Guys Believe	\|

Posted by : HelenofTroy on Tuesday, December 22, 2009 - 03:32 PM GMT

Many men have some very disturbed ideas about sex and biology. For instance, a good friend of mine spent years believing that girls pee out their butts; he thought this until he was age 21. He was a certified EMT.

The subtler sex myths, though, may be the most damaging ones. They can ruin relationships and sex lives, even if they seem extremely obvious. Here’s a look at a few of the more common sex myths that a large number of guys tend to believe.

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